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For an authentic experience, realistic dildos come complete with lifelike veins. For added sensations, opt for a vibrating dildo, or if you’re into temperature play, you can even buy metal or glass dildos. Check out our Strap on guide to help you with your shared pleasure quest.


What is a dildo?

What exactly is a dildo? A dildo is a phallic-inspired toy designed specifically for insertion. These adult toys are masterfully crafted to resemble a real penis, exhibiting elements such as veins and girth that contribute to a lifelike sensation. Dildos aren't confined to realistic designs; some take on unconventional shapes, colors, and are made from various materials such as silicone, PVC, latex, and jelly. These features combine to stimulate your sensitive areas, providing a uniquely satisfying experience. Functioning like a natural penis, dildo sex toys are capable of penetrating the vagina, anus, and even the mouth.

While often associated with female solo play, dildoes cater to a wide array of sexual explorations and orientations. They can be instrumental during foreplay, act as tools for self-pleasure, or add an intriguing element to partnered activities. In essence, the versatility of dildoes makes them a sought-after addition to the sexual repertoire of individuals and couples alike.

Types of Dildos to Buy

Understanding the numerous types of dildos is beneficial as each type is designed with a unique purpose in mind. Our selection of dildos showcases an extensive range of sizes in terms of length and width. The excitement elicited by a 12 inch dildo might be thrilling for one individual, but perhaps less appealing for another. Selecting the ideal size is often dependent on your level of comfort, experience, or personal preferences for pleasure.

In addition to size, you can also buy dildoes in a vibrant palette of colors. Options vary from realistic flesh tones to more adventurous hues such as red, blue, purple, and black. We even have multi coloured dildos! While the majority of dildos are constructed from silicone, PVC, Jelly, or plastic, we also offer glass and metal dildoes for those who enjoy temperature play. These can be warmed up or cooled down, introducing an unexpected twist to your sensory experience.

Finding the Best Dildo for You

Whether you want to buy a dildo toy for yourself, a partner, or a friend, at 4Play Essentials we’ve got a wide range of dildo for sale. And let me let you in on a little secret, we’ve got really attractive dildo prices to make sure you get the most bang for your money. Finding the best dildo for you can be challenging so here’s some advice on choosing the right one for you.

Best Dildos for Beginners

For those new to the world of dildos, we advise starting with a small dildo (total length 15 - 19cm) and gradually progressing to larger and girthier sizes. Acclimating to the sensation can take time and practice, so it's essential not to overreach if you're just beginning your journey.

If you're uncertain about the appropriate size, an inflatable dildo could be a viable option. These innovative toys are designed to be inserted and then inflated to a size that comfortably fits you and complements your body's needs.

Best Dildo for Those That Want a Realistic Sex Toy

An ultra-realistic, lifelike, or real-feel dildo is meticulously crafted to mirror the appearance of a penis. Many of these models feature prominent veins, a textured surface, and a well-defined glans at the top, otherwise referred to as the head, which can provide extra external stimulation. A realistic dildo is available with or without testicles. Explore further within our realistic dildos collection to uncover more.

Try a Suction Cup Dildo

If you're a fan of hands-free enjoyment, consider experimenting with a suction cup dildo or wall-mounted dildo. These can adhere to any hard, smooth surface (yes, this includes shower walls!), enabling you to indulge in seamless solo play. These versatile dildo toys, suitable for both vaginal and anal use, offer the freedom to pleasure yourself at your convenience, wherever you might be. Consider these your portable pleasure devices, ready to deliver delightful experiences anytime and anywhere.

Try a Double Dildo

Double dildos essentially offer the same functionality as standard dildos but with the added advantage of delivering twice the pleasure and fun. Initially created as a lesbian dildo, these double ended dildos have become widely appreciated by women and men alike for their unique penetration capabilities. Double sided dildos or double ended dildos can offer a fantastic shared stimulation experience during intimacy.

Try a Strap On Dildo

There's no cap on the variety of dildos that can be shared with a partner. Whether you're intrigued by observing your partner use one, wish to use one on them, or are keen to explore the mutual use of dildo toys, there's ample room for shared pleasure.

A strap on dildo is an excellent alternative for lesbian couples or heterosexual couples curious about venturing into pegging. These dildos often include several different-sized dildos, introducing a range of new and thrilling experiences to your intimate play. A strapon dildo is an ideal lesbian dildo or pegging dildo, enabling the wearer to secure the dildo around their waist for vaginal or anal penetration.

Try a Vibrating Dildo

In the realm of self-pleasure, a vibrating dildo can significantly enhance your experience. The combination of vibration stimulation alongside the tactile sensation and form of a penis makes any vibrating sex toy an invaluable asset to your pleasure trove.

A vibrating dildo employs pulsations to elevate your arousal and deliver diverse sensations that regular dildos may not provide. If you crave a toy that emulates the movement of real-life penetration, a thrusting dildo is an excellent choice. This type of dildo vibrator not only adds a realistic touch but also boosts the intensity of your solo sessions.

How to use a dildo

Knowing how to use a dildo can unlock a world of pleasure, and it's quite straightforward. Here are some simple steps to guide you:


Choose the Right Dildo:

Your experience will greatly depend on the type and size of dildo you select. Choose a size and shape that makes you feel comfortable and suits your level of experience. Also consider the material—silicone, glass, or plastic—and the type—realistic, vibrating, double-ended, or suction cup.

Prepare Yourself:

Relaxation is key for an enjoyable experience. Ensure you're in a comfortable, private setting where you can focus on your pleasure. Engaging in foreplay or self-stimulation can help to arouse you and make the experience more enjoyable.

Use Lubricant:

Apply a generous amount of lube on your dildo toy and the area you'll be inserting it into. Water-based lubricants are safe for most dildo materials but double-check the manufacturer's instructions.

Begin Slowly:

Start by slowly inserting the dildo penis. The pace, depth, and angle that feel best will depend on your personal preferences and how your body responds to the toy.

Experiment with Movements:

Once you're comfortable, try different motions such as thrusting, rotating, or rocking the dildo. Find a rhythm and movement that feels best for you.

Clean Up:

After use, clean your dildo thoroughly according to the manufacturer's instructions to maintain hygiene and ensure the longevity of the toy.

Remember, the main purpose of using a dildo is pleasure, so listen to your body and adjust your actions based on what feels good to you. And always prioritize your comfort and safety!